Monday, April 29, 2019

Weeks 63-65: (Guest Post) Let's see if Mom can fill in the blanks...

Mom stepping in here-It’s been three weeks since we have received a blessed group email letter from our dearest сестра. I must be honest and take about 90% of the blame. Since the Church announced the new change to allow missionaries to call home weekly, this momma has had a lot of catching up to do with Sister Vehar. It just seems like every week our time to visit gets shorter and shorter as the work in Ukraine progresses...last week Kaeleigh seriously only had 10 minutes to talk. No time for group emails when she needs to email her mission president and say hello to her momma too.

We love hearing about the missionary work in Ukraine and the best is being able to see her face light up now and see her smile as she shares her experiences. Since Sister Vehar has admitted that she is QUITE behind in her journaling, I’d like to write a few things down from our conversations over the last few weeks so that she has some form of documentation of her experiences and memories.

Kaeleigh told me today, April 29, that this has shown to be the hardest of the last three transfers together with Sister Thompson. The first transfer together, they didn’t have anyone to teach, so they worked like crazy to contact and find as many potential people to teach as possible. Then came second transfer together and they had so many people to teach that they could barely find time to teach everyone. They didn’t dare cancel a single appointment whether they were sick or had time constraints...or even if it meant teaching a lesson outside in the middle of a wicked hail storm. Yes, Kaeleigh said she had one of her best lessons while getting pelted in the face with hail. Sounds exciting, right? This woman she was teaching in the storm is Margo. Margo and her husband were contacted by Kaeleigh and her companion, Sister Thompson, in the street. They discussed the Book of Mormon and basic gospel principles that were so exciting to them that they talked about how anxious they were all week to meet and get that book that would change their lives. Margo and her cousin came together with Margo’s baby to meet the missionaries and when the storm came, Margo’s cousin took the baby home. Margo continued to ask wonderful questions as if she didn’t even notice it was hailing outside. She left with her husband to travel for a few weeks, so Kaeleigh is excited to begin teaching her and her husband when they return.

Kaeleigh told me about a man from the Ivory Coast in Africa that they found and began teaching. They are currently trying to pass him to elders that serve over the International branch. This gentleman speaks French. Months ago, I asked Kaeleigh how her French was anymore (after taking four years in high school). She had told me it was “trash” or something to that extent...she said she couldn’t remember any of it. Well, this man speaks French, and they just happened to have a French Book of Mormon. Kaeleigh testified of the gift of tongues as she said that she was able to “sort of” communicate with this man and was recalling how to say French words that she always struggled to remember during high school.

Kaeleigh said as they are beginning their 3rd transfer together now, the hardest part is having to weed out people who aren’t sincere or progressing. The Ukraine Kyiv/Moldova mission does something called 30/30 where they teach English for 30 minutes and then in return ask the “student” if they will allow them to study the Gospel or share a spiritual message with them for the second 30 minutes of the hour. She feels they have a lot of people that say they would like that “deal”, but they only do it for the free 30 minute solo English lessons. One of her 30/30 lessons ended up turning into a group lesson because members of a band wanted to take this 30/30 lesson so they could learn "Christian" words. Their band plays at their own church and they only wanted to learn words that they could use to preach to their congregation. It wasn't really working in the group setting she said so it sounds like they weren't able to continue the 30/30's with them. (Kaeleigh teaches group English classes twice a week. 30/30s are geared for an individual learning experience with less distractions and a learn-at-your-own pace .)

Kaeleigh told us today about their (Orthodox) Easter Sunday yesterday. They arrived to church and as they were about to start, police came in and talked to their bishop. The bishop stepped up to the pulpit and told everyone there is a report of a bomb in a church in Ukraine and so the congregation would have to step out of the building for the next hour so that the authorities could search for a bomb. Kaeleigh said most of the members went home instead of waiting outside in the pouring rain (she said they usually have about 150 members and they ended up only having 30 there after everyone went home).

It's hard for me to remember three weeks worth of conversations with my girl. This is the best I can do for now, but it's better than nothing. Kaeleigh is doing fantastic! Her cousin, Aubree Heywood, returned from her mission on Friday and I made sure to call and connect them so they could FINALLY catch up with each other "face to face". It's been over 19 months since these two have talked to each other. They are best cousins...that's better than best friends by the way. It was so fun to listen and watch these two young ladies chat mission stuff. I SO can't wait for their real-life reunion...only 92 more days!
 Sisters Vehar and Thompson
Sisters Vehar and Goncear 


 Kaeleigh's Ukrainian friend
COUSINS!!! Welcome home Aubree

Monday, April 8, 2019

Week 62: God Loves Irony

    My mom isn't answering her video calls right now, so you all are going to be entreated to a weekly email!!! Have I got some stories for you!
    So I guess I need to start with letting you all in on our day to day lives for this one, but basically people here are so prideful and think they are so funny when they come up with "original and witty" comebacks that we have never heard before- notice the sarcasm. Every time we run into these people, we joke that we are ready for God to send the flood to humble these people. This occurs maybe every ten minutes.
    SO we get to the good part. It's a calm Tuesday evening, roughly 10 pm. It's the night before apartment audits so I'm cleaning like crazy so our apartment actually looks good. I walk into the kitchen, and the sink is filling up and our dishes are floating and so I'm wondering what the heck my companion did and so I go to unplug the drain.... there is no plug. All of of a sudden the sink starts draining and water is pouring out of the cupboard under the sink! There was like an inch of water on the floor and we threw anything that could soak up water on the floor. We of course called the elders at 10:15 and they told us they knew us too well and that we wouldn't do anything else about it, so they came over to fix our problem and didn't end up leaving until 11:30. It was pretty hectic. So the moral of the story- we asked for a flood and we sure got one.
    We met with a man from Iraq and gave him an Arabic Book of Mormon and literally it was the coolest experience ever. We had to use google translate the whole time, but this guy was one of the most receptive person I have ever met in this country. Of course he goes back this week and we have a huge language barrier.

Anyway the work is going on and it is so awesome! Lovin’ it. Love you all.
Sister Vehar

Monday, April 1, 2019

Week 61: Копец

Hello everyone! Lots happened this week and I don't have time to write about it! What's new! At least I'm writing this week!

We got a new investigator, Margo, this week and literally so golden. Like this woman is the most prepared and ready to change person I've ever met. She was so excited to get the Book of Mormon and see how it could strengthen her new family, her husband and baby. She even said that she doesn't fear change and is willing to do anything to raise her family well- welcome to the Gospel my friend!
 
 We were on exchange and a pigeon pooped in my companion's shoe. (Sorry Sister Maisey!)
    
So I got really sick this week, but we have so many investigators right now that we can't meet with everyone each week and so we never stayed home because we literally could not afford to give up a minute. And so I was literally trashed and still have a cold. But, we have always seen miracles when we sacrifice here. We met some of the best people when I still went out and did the work. And every time we talked to someone, I didn't feel my headache. It came back as soon as we stopped talking to them. MIRACLES. I'm not saying on the mission never stay home, but we saw some awesome blessings!

I don't really have much else to update on, but I know that our Heavenly Father loves each of you and is willing to help you with each of your problems, big or small. We just have to be ready and willing to ask for His help with the intent to ACT to do something with the answer we receive.

I love you all! Find ways to be missionaries!
Sister Vehar